Jon Snow may be a useless douche, but he's the closest thing to a straight-up fantasy hero in this show. I don't know where you left off, but he gets better, after a point.
As far as upcoming sexual assaults go, there's no details, but one of the actresses recently talked about filming a "super tramautic" scene that was horrible for everyone to film and watch. So, I dunno, tread lightly.
Don't be a dick. Like's been said, he's just lying and being needlessly defensive about it ("beg for forgiveness" indeed). No need to act like he came here cap-in-hand and people are calling for his head.
It might be trendy, but Modern Vampires of the City was truly excellent. A real maturation of their themes and their sound, and the best songwriting Koenig's ever done. One of the few albums I know where every single track is, in some way, outstanding (if that even makes sense).
It's not like they're having separate conversations or staring at their phones and ignoring each other, though. They're using their phones to interact and have fun with each other, while you clinging to the notion that it's inherently rude to be on your phone has led to you cutting yourself off from the group activities. Irony!