I hope you realize you basically just made the case for not only why the Yankees are hated, but why they SHOULD be hated.
Let me just start off by saying I'm not a blind Yankee fan. I'm well aware we spend more (way, way, way more in some cases) than other teams when it comes to acquiring talent. It only makes sense for the fans of teams that attempt to build a team through scouting, drafting, and strategic financing despise the Yankee ballclub. I do realize that was the case I made, because I don't hide from that fact.
That said, the Yankees are still a well-run organization. Should the Yankee higher-ups invest all the money they spend on free agents into scouting and their farm system, hell, we could be an even more dominating team. But that's just not how it works with this ball club. Yes, in the 80's and early 90's the Yankees struggled, but they have always had a "Win Now" mentality. Why it's so important to spend all that money on big names instead of sending their scout to Bumfuck, Iowa to check out the next pitching prodigy, I couldn't tell you. I'm not in the meetings. But that's the way they choose to run their franchise.
Now, do I agree with it? Not really. As said, I'd love for us to invest half the money we spent on Tex, CC, and AJ alone into our scouting and bring in some 19 and 20 year old wonderkids. Is it unfair? Sure, it's about as unfair that my wife is driving around in a 2000 Chevy Cavalier while a doctor is driving his BMW sportscar. But he has the money to own that car, we don't. It's unfortunately a fact of life that life ain't fair. If the Yankees have the money to spend, should they not be allowed to spend it? If there is no salary cap, why not? And this may come as a shock: I'm a Yankee fan completely FOR a salary cap. Because then we'd be forced to spend all that money on our farm systtem and scouting.
In conclussion, yes, I completely understand the hate. And I don't shy away from it, I'd rather discuss it. I give people a lot of crap, and make a lot of stupid jokes (like saying CC should've won the Cy Young or Cano the MVP), because I'm a cornball jokester. The very first blanket I was wrapped in on the day I was born was white with navy pinstripes. My first word was "ball", I got my first name after Don Mattingly, and my earliest memory is being at Yankee stadium watching frickin' Matt Nokes hit a homerun (and cried, because I thought that meant we were going to lose). The Yanks could spend $450 million a year, or lose 161 games a season, and I'd still love them. It's etched in my brain more than the sky being blue and the grass being green. I don't know where I was going with all that, but yes, I realize that's why they're hated.